The Innocent Thai Lady Who Married The Devil Of Dubai.
Can anyone in their right mind contemplate why a 25 year old, 40 kgs, spiritually easy Thai Dating Pattaya girl (left) would marry this horrible, awful, fat, bloated, hellish looking, 108kgs obese, 40 years of age tattooed freak?
In some cases even when I take a look at this photo, I can not understand why. Simply since the lady on the right is Nitnipa Nakoon wed the guy on the right, Loy Machedo– that’s me.
There are minutes I ask myself and even my spouse– seriously, why did you wed me? And all I get is a laugh and a hug.
Well, let me fill you in with a few information that make this mix extremely not likely.
About my spouse:
She is an easy, hard-working, generous, forgiving, loving, caring, spiritual girl who never ever had a boy-friend and wasn’t thinking about men. She never touched alcohol, cigarette or drugs. And she never ever went to any nightclubs, bars or parties. She simply believed in assisting her mother and daddy in the rice fields. She is young, she is beautiful and she is complete of life.
Foul-mouthed, vulgar, conceited, self-centered, self-centered, self-promoting, boastful and an Atheist. Someone who had cheated on all 3 of his partners, had over 450 sexual affairs, who tattooed himself from head-to-toe, disliked being around with individuals, broke off with his household and family members, was extremely questionable, loud and vocal. And never thought in doing anything totally free. And included to this– I was over-weight, awful and not really good to be around with.
So why in the world did my better half even authorize of me? To make sure, she would inform me the truth which I would inform the world about it- especially since I would constantly get questions– I even produced a youtube video and posted our discussion LIVE
In fact here are couple of stunning facts that perhaps nobody understands:
- My wifey’s real name is Nitnipa Nakoon which means “Appeal Of Light”. But in English, everybody calls her “Annie”
- We satisfied on the Thai dating site. Highlight– up until then practically every other site had provide me absolutely no responses to my profile.
- Shaadi which is an Indian matrimonial website had actually rejected my profile picture stating I wasn’t allowed to submit star photos claiming that it was my own
- Shaadi which is an Indian profile and me being Indian myself– Well, I got no matches and absolutely no reactions while on the Thai dating site, I overcame 5,000 actions
- I would send over 100 e-mails a day without seeing whom I was sending it to as I seriously didn’t desire to read what anyone needed to state about them. After all, I understood whatever people composed was their own ‘goody-two-shoes’ assessment of themselves and none of it was a true reflection of their character. And yes– much like the format I follow on e-mails– I copy/pasted the exact same design template to everyone
Out of the 5,000 actions I received, I sent out all of them a list of Concerns, Terms & & Conditions of what I desired, what I was looking for and who I was. And because I also made it clear that
– I wasn’t abundant
– I wasn’t going to provide any cash for marital relationship (in the Thai custom, the male needs to pay the woman’s family out of respect– a marital relationship dowry).
– I didn’t smoke, beverage, or interact socially and desired a lady who was the exact same.
– The female after marital relationship had to work and I wasn’t offering her easy money.
– I was the one in charge of the woman and the home had to follow my rules.
( No one liked my rules I suppose as the 90% never ever reacted back)
- Out of the ones who concurred to it, I would simply talk with them in a very typical way and from all the rest– I finally zeroed it down to 6 females.
- I ended up picking one– but that female cheated me of 100,000 Thai Baht and ran therefore I was back to square one. Finest part, we had literally announced to the world world we were marrying and she even tattooed my name on her chest to prove it that she liked me. Even after that, she ran off– an act I might never make good sense off.
- Finally, I handled to get one lady whom I understood was the best one for me. She was going to get here in a months time.
- Nevertheless, 5 days prior to she was going to arrive, I ran into this woman on my Facebook messenger. She had sent me a good friends request, and even though I had actually accepted her demand, I never talked with her.
- And in the strangest coincidences of them all– rather of fulfilling up with the woman whom I was expected to get wed– I wound up conference Nitnipa and getting married to her. Unusual right?
- By the way– the most significant shocker– I saw her on electronic camera and in 3 seconds I proposed to her if she wished to marry me or not. She not only got a shock of her life– she ended up saying yes. And within 3 days of meeting each other in person for the very first time– we got wed.
Now when I asked my wifey, Nitnipa why did she get married to me or Thai Dating Pattaya why did she state yes to me, well these were her factors:
- I was the 1st person in her life who told her “You look like Mickey Mouse” while discussing her ears.
- I was the 1st guy when she did ask me what did I like about her– I told her “I don’t know anything about you, how can I like you?”
- I was the first man who didn’t give her a single compliment. In fact, I never ever matched her at all.
- I was the first guy who didn’t smile at her
- I was the first person who kept doing work while putting on the electronic camera (I was hectic blogging)
- I was the 1st guy whom she ran into that didn’t smoke, didn’t drink, didn’t go to parties and didn’t like interacting socially
- I was the 1st man who had tattoos. Best part she hated tattoos of any kind.
- I was the 1st man whom her household totally rejected and said no to.
- I was the first person who informed her point blank all his drawbacks consisting of the truth that I had actually slept with whores, I had lots of females in my life which I was a playboy
- I was the 1st person who told her that he wouldn’t pay any cash for dowry.
So in every method, shape and type, I was the total opposite to whatever she had actually imagined. Nevertheless, well get got wed.
But if you thought the story ended there– well you are incorrect again. AFTER we got married, obviously everyone in the village informed her mom and daddy that:
- I was a dangerous Mafia member
- I was understood to beat children, people and women
- I obviously kidnapped females and offered them into prostitution
- I was harmful and violent
- I had drugs and prohibited compounds in the house.
It was so bad, that they actually refused to send her with me and for us to go back home. So, what was the service?
The Senior Sibling & & her husband accompanied her with me to my home– simply to be sure that she would be safe with me.
Well they left once they checked my home and recognized there was nothing to fret about. But not without producing a group on LINE (app that a lot of Thai people use) where they would constantly send her messages to understand if I was excellent to her or not. Appears that somebody once again let the household understand that I was ‘putting on’ an act of being good (she told me about this group guy days later).
Today it has been 7 months considering that our marriage. My wifey is quite alive. Finest part– she is likewise pregnant with our first baby. So few scary stories there. Apart from my constant fixation to my work and my mood swings where I do not like any noise when I do my work– there are no other horror stories to share.
The only other amazing thing for the both of us is that– well tomorrow– 16th January 2018 is her birthday. And Thai Dating Pattaya 13 days later is mine.
Provided that I do not believe in all this Birthday BS, I have hardly ever if ever celebrated my birthday. But offered that she is a girl still in her 20’s I may think about some easy yet personal moments to make it and keep it unique. However, it will remain personal and individual.
But when I recall at our minutes together, particularly how we fulfilled up, I have nothing but surprise and awe at how she was able to check out all my ink, all the reports about me and all the negativity even I informed her about me and still accept me.
In reality, even today when I ask her “Why did you say yes to wed me?” she very sweetly responds in her broken English “I see your eyes. You have good heart. You great man.”
Don’t know much about that part. However all I do understand is that I am certainly really lucky to have a lady who genuinely enjoys me and who by any requirements of the word ‘ideal’ is really my best fit and my perfect partner.
So for whatever it deserves, I am simply fortunate to have found Real Love. And yes, commemorate the first ever birthday of my wifey– Nitnipa Nakoon with me.
Pleased Birthday dear Wifey from your dangerously devilish other half …